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Like I have said before comics like this one piss me off! Basically it says one should never be friends with the opposite sex unless they intend on being that way forever. One is supposed to ask them out on a date and then move on when they say no. I have to admit I'm in a so called "friends zone" with all my current friends of the opposite sex for a variety of reasons. But mostly because I have been in a long term relationship for around 4 years which I've lost contact with these last few months. I preferred it that way... having her as my one relationship and everyone else as just friends.
Well according to that cartoon if I make any new friends and start out as just friends I've burnt my bridges before I've even crossed them... and there's no chance for any of my other friendships to blossom into anything else. I kind of don't know what to think. But it's all mostly just depressed, down on myself type of thoughts... or angry, bitter thoughts. This person also makes it seem like the meaning of love for women is to play head games and be treated badly.... and of course if they deny this they are lying so there's no way to disprove this.
Well, pardon me but screw that. I'm practically fuming right now with how upset this has made me. Although one thing for me is I never am not tripping over myself for anyone really. On the other hand it makes me almost seriously consider if anyone where to complain to me about who they are with to immediately break off our friendship then and there. Hah, that'll show them that I'm no door mat!! <_< Or that I have to watch how nice I am because you can't be too nice!!! =P
I can't stand by going out of my way to do certain things like be a "jerk". Eventually I'm going to be myself and what then? If all women are so ADD riddled (practically) that they always have to be challenged as one site has said they are going to lose interest sooner or later and they'll move on to the next latest and greatest thing.
Well according to that cartoon if I make any new friends and start out as just friends I've burnt my bridges before I've even crossed them... and there's no chance for any of my other friendships to blossom into anything else. I kind of don't know what to think. But it's all mostly just depressed, down on myself type of thoughts... or angry, bitter thoughts. This person also makes it seem like the meaning of love for women is to play head games and be treated badly.... and of course if they deny this they are lying so there's no way to disprove this.
Well, pardon me but screw that. I'm practically fuming right now with how upset this has made me. Although one thing for me is I never am not tripping over myself for anyone really. On the other hand it makes me almost seriously consider if anyone where to complain to me about who they are with to immediately break off our friendship then and there. Hah, that'll show them that I'm no door mat!! <_< Or that I have to watch how nice I am because you can't be too nice!!! =P
I can't stand by going out of my way to do certain things like be a "jerk". Eventually I'm going to be myself and what then? If all women are so ADD riddled (practically) that they always have to be challenged as one site has said they are going to lose interest sooner or later and they'll move on to the next latest and greatest thing.
